In my culture, dating is huge. People are always asking out and getting asked out. In the short time that I've been in college, I already have a pretty good idea of my "prince charming", and it's not the same idea I had just a few months ago. In high school, I always looked for the guy with the amazing style, doesn't like football and has a great smile, basically a prince. Although I still like those things in a guy, they aren't at the top of my list anymore. I like to be treated like a queen by a guy. Now I'm not saying this in a selfish stuck-up way, but rather in a thoughtful more aware way. If a guy doesn't open my door or jump up to get something for me on the first date, then what are they going to do in marriage? A guy who is aware of there surroundings is an amazing find and something that has become important to me. Although dress is important, I've learned that a man who is just that, not a prince, but a man, is the best for me. God created men and women to be different, but to complete each other. I don't need someone with an amazing style or someone who doesn't watch sports. I need someone who will complete me and work hand-in-hand with me to raise a righteous family and stand by me for eternity. Marriage is so important and dating is just the first step to get there, and like my mom always tells me, you marry who you date, so choose wisely.
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